Ax wrote:Hi Dennis,
Just graduated from your secrets to investing in stocks seminar on sunday.
Just had my 27th bday on saturday(day 1 of seminar). have been working for a year plus. I do understand the importance of investing to prevent inflation from corroding away the value of money.
After hearing your story, I do believe its possible to be a millionaire even if a person comes from a normal background. But how did you manage to setup a family even during the process of building your wealth?
I have plans to get married in 2 years time. However, I am faced with very hard choices of allocating my funds, sometimes even feeling a bit tied for choices. I have managed to build up a fund of barely 5 figures.
wish you could share some pointers/advice from your experience? being young and foolish and rash.. I hope to make a wise decision at this stage of my life.
would be very grateful to your reply
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Hi Ax,
Chinese has a saying:"set up family then build your career" 成家立业. I think it is words of wisdom.
Looking at some of my peers, those that focused on their career and didn't settle down in their 20s, some of them are still single at age 40. While I got married at age 27 and now I have 2 children.
To become Rich, you need to develop the mindset of the Rich, the Rich think that both can be achieved, Happy Family and Career. While the average think they need to sacrifice one for the other.
As I shared, after I got married in 1996, I had cash of S$5,000 only and Networth of S$205,000. Now, my Networth is 10 times more, 14 years later.
Give yourself a pat on the back, you have started Learning how to plan, manage and grow your Finances, which means you're already ahead of those who DID NOT even start.
Saving, Managing and Growing one's money is a habit. From 1st month I worked, I developed the habit of saving at least 20% of my income. And over the years, as my income increases, I can even save a higher percentage.
Saving is just the first step. The next step which can Lead to Riches and Financial Freedom is "making your savings work for you" (as Robert Kiyosaki preached). However, I did not learn HOW to make money work for me from him (since he didn't teach in his books). I learned from other sifus and mentors, Real Multi-millionaires in Singapore that I had the luck to meet and learn from.
At age 27, I still had no idea about stock investing, which led to me losing over S$50,000 (half of my wealth then) at age 29 during year 1998 Asian Financial Crisis.
So at least you start out right (ie. invested your money to Learn How to Invest) and possibly avoid the "heartache" of losing half of your wealth which I experienced.
And you have this Forum to continue your learning Journey, something I didn't have at age 29 back in 1998...